Ruth Ramsay

Ruth Ramsay

Ruth is a sex and intimacy coach and former striptease artist and campaigner.

Ruth is unshockable. She’s seen it all (and participated in most of it too!), life experience which comes in handy when you are a qualified sex and intimacy coach.

Ruth is a former award-winning striptease artist and campaigner for the erotic rights of people with disabilities. She spent a decade dancing and campaigning – appearing on platforms as diverse as BBC Radio 4’s Today programme, The Erotic Review and Love It! – and taught striptease extensively. In 2012 she won a prestigious Erotic Award for her campaigning and volunteering. 

Ruth now uses this unique combination of skills and experience to support her coaching clients to revolutionise their sexual lives. She has a gentle but direct approach and a quite incredible ability to create an absolutely safe, judgement-free space. She talks about sex like people talk about doing the dishes. Except she still makes it sound interesting and sexy, obviously. 

Our favourite Ruth quote: ‘Learning about sex by watching porn is like learning how to drive by watching the The Fast and the Furious

Ruth believes that erotic energy can and should be a force for good for all. Hear, hear!

Woman under pressure

You could scream, or you could read this

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Take control of your sex life; explore what you need from your sexual relationships, work out what’s stopping you from getting what you want and plan for a better, more fulfilled future with Ruth’s 1:1 coaching packages.

How to Please a woman in bed, Ruth Ramsay

Want to know how a woman can experience her highest peaks of ecstasy? Get ready to be enlightened, encouraged, informed and inspired.


When it comes to your sex life, ever think, ‘There must be more than this?’ Well, you’re right, there is. Let sex and intimacy coach Ruth Ramsay fill you in (so to speak).

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